Saturday, 14 May 2011

All About Love and Heartbreaks.

“Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.”


Here are some little lessons I learnt during the course of getting infatuated, being broken hearted and eventually learning about Love-


-That indeed, when you truly love somebody, all you want is for them to be happy. It gives you a kind of satisfaction and joy to know of their happiness, that your own tears cease to matter. As somebody said-

Love? It's kind of complicated,
but I'll tell you this...
the second you're willing
to make yourself miserable
to make someone else happy,
that's love right there.


-I learnt that letting go somebody is almost as beautiful as holding on. You hold on to somebody who loves you back, you let go the person who doesn't want to be held on to.

"True love doesn't have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you."

 
-Expectations can turn even the most beautiful relationships bitter. You can only be responsible for the love you give, and you can NEVER force somebody to love you back. And I swear, its no joy forcing somebody to be with you.!


-Love is all about acceptance and forgiveness. Love people just the way they are, their good and bad equally. And though it might sound weird when I say it, but forgiving people is a noble thing indeed.


-Be who you are when you are with that person. The moment you have to start pretending to be somebody else-- the relationship loses it value!


- On the funny side, never ever flirt too much with somebody you are not interested in! Who knows they might start falling for you!! :P


- Too many heartbreaks can give you a kind of immunity..It starts hurting lesser and lesser every time! Believe me!


- And yes, though life may suck for the moment, one day you'll find somebody who loves you back just the way you do! These experiences are merely moulding you into somebody God wants you to be. They are preparing you for the BIG day! :)


Lets just wait for it! :)

5 comments:

  1. now this is wat i call penning down a brilliant experience in such a mature manner :) :):) amazing ji!! keep it up.... :D:D

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  2. hehe! Thankiee krits! Now finish ur bloggy fast..I'm waitingg for it!
    :)

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  3. aakriti the puuppy~~!!! i lubs this !! mela comment deletes ho gayas buts stills .... readings thiss ones feels greatss cozs ones cans connects!!! :D:D

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  4. hmmm....interesting!

    I like it!
    Keep going! :)

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